So I just had to write another post about a funny thing that happened yesterday. Hayden and I went to our friends house and visited and played for a bit in the afternoon. It was just the 4 of us (2 moms and 2 kids). His little friend, who's name is Lauren, is so adorable. She is cute, and small and blonde and bubbly. She is about the same age as Hayden (a few months younger). Then there's Gwen, Hayden's girlafriend. She a few months older than Hayden. So he's torn. He has two women vying for his attention and he has quite the dilemma. So, basically he plays them both. When he's with Gwen, he is WITH Gwen. They frolic. They run and giggle and tell secrets and kiss, and hug and grope. They do it all. It is a little embarrassing at times. We have to tell them to cool it (as I wrote before). When he's with Lauren (who he has only known for a couple months now) they bicker. They try to share the same toy and it doesn't go well. They try to coexist with each other and there are issues. Then for a few minutes they are fine. But mostly, we are hovering, and breaking up conflict. But, then before we leave, Hayden waits on the doorstep of their house for his kiss. He wants his kiss and hug from Lauren too. Then, if both girls are at the same playdate, which is what happened today, he ignores them both entirely and the girls go off and play together happily and do girlie things. If only that happened in the adult world, life would be easier and less dramatic.

On a side note...as we were driving home from Lauren's yesterday, he says..."Mom, I kissed Lauren"..."Yeah you did" I said. To which he responds, "OH MAN, it was good". What a player. -- mam